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Interesting Dating Tips For Shy Girls

Interesting Dating Tips For Shy Girls

1. Move beyond your circle

When we’re in a party, we tend to stay amid our own group of people, the ones with whom we are familiar. This bars us from meeting new people because we never move out of our comfort zone. You should start roaming about in the party, sit at the bar for some time or ask some common friends to introduce you to other people. This way you will have a chance of increasing number of your friends which is critical for eventually dating the man you want to.

2. Don’t show your nervousness

Even if you are under tension before approaching the man you would like to date, don’t overtly display it. Think twice and calm yourself down before taking any step. Make sure you don’t start blabbering irrelevant things. Ensure your hands don’t become sweaty. You think he can’t see this but he will easily be able to make this out. Close your eyes, take a deep breath and enjoy your drink. Guys love girls who are comfortable and confident with themselves. Don’t try to woo your guy with that typical girly shy smile. If you see your man approaching you, throw him a lovely broad smile and watch how it works like a charm.

3. Be a conversation starter

Being shy, it’s going to be typical of you to wait for the opposite person to start a conversation. Don’t fall into the trap of waiting for your potential date to pick up a talk; otherwise you will never end up dating him. You can even practice some generic sounding conversation starter lines. The fact that you can start a conversation shows that you have the capability of taking initiative.

4. Reverse the rules

Who has written the rule that a man should pay the bill each time? Or a man should get a drink for a woman? It’s all in our mind. If you subtly reverse this trend, not only will you come out as a bold outgoing woman, but he will also feel that you have the guts to go against the convention. The man you are aiming at will instantly remember you by face and by name.

5. Be direct

Men don’t read between the lines. They will appreciate if you can be direct with them and not go around in circles. Remember to not fish for compliments. If you are craving for some, just directly ask, “Do you think this dress suits me?”. This will do the trick and catch his attention instantly.

6. Limit the consumption of alcohol

you should allow yourself to take a drink or two but take the precaution to not get too high or drunk. Not only will this put up an unwanted reputation on the man that you want to date, but you will yourself not be able to enjoy the process of flirting and getting to know your man better.

7. Talk about important things

You can pick up a conversation about work, your interests, ambitions and hobbies. This can be a turn on for many men these days rather than encountering bimbo like women who have no substance. Reciprocate and ask him about his hobbies, likes and interests.

8. Maintain correct body posture

you should allow yourself to take a drink or two but take the precaution to not get too high or drunk. Not only will this put up an unwanted reputation on the man that you want to date, but you will yourself not be able to enjoy the process of flirting and getting to know your man better.

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